Paav Bhaaji

For me, Pav Bhaji is not just a dish — it’s a memory, a time capsule that takes me straight back to childhood.

I still remember when the Pav Bhaji trend first arrived in my town. I was in elementary school, and almost overnight it became everyone’s favorite food. The rich aroma, the buttery pav, the vibrant, spicy bhaji — it felt exciting and new, like a taste of a bigger world arriving in our quiet little city. My whole family fell in love with it instantly, especially me.

I never got to experience it the way many people did — standing at a bustling roadside stall, eating straight off a hot griddle. I always wanted to, but in the small town where I grew up, it wasn’t considered proper for women to eat at street-side vendors. It sounds like something from another era, yet it wasn’t that long ago — just a few decades. Writing about it now, I’m amazed at how much my town has changed since then. The transformation is exciting, but also a little unsettling.

Small towns have a magic of their own. Life moves slower, people are warmer, and relationships feel closer. Back then, I could walk down the street and run into dozens of familiar faces — neighbors, shopkeepers, school friends, distant relatives. Today, I might still see just as many people, but that easy sense of connection feels softer, almost faded. Progress brings many good things, but sometimes it quietly takes a few precious ones away too.

Since I couldn’t go to the stalls, my father would bring Pav Bhaji home as takeaway, and those evenings felt like celebrations. We would gather around, tearing into buttery pav, scooping up the spicy bhaji, savoring every bite. Eventually, my mother began recreating it at home using store-bought Pav Bhaji masala, and soon her version became just as beloved. Over time, she developed her own blend — simple, balanced, and deeply comforting. It’s the same masala I still use today, and every time I cook with it, it feels like bringing a piece of her kitchen into mine.

I’ve made Pav Bhaji countless times over the years, and it never loses its charm. My mother liked to add a variety of vegetables — cauliflower, carrots, peas — making it wholesome and hearty. I, however, prefer a simpler version with just potatoes and bell peppers. Somehow, that minimal approach brings me closer to the bold, buttery street-style flavor that first captured my heart.

The pav in this recipe are homemade too, and they’re surprisingly easy to make. If you follow the steps carefully, you’ll be rewarded with soft, pillowy buns that rival any bakery version. Of course, these buns are wonderful with many dishes, but paired with bhaji, they become something truly special.

For the best experience, slice the buns in half, spread a generous layer of butter, sprinkle a little Pav Bhaji masala, and toast them on a hot tava or pan until golden and fragrant. That simple step transforms them completely — crisp on the outside, soft on the inside, and infused with buttery spice.

Some foods nourish the body. Others nourish the heart. For me, Pav Bhaji does both.

Click and make your own Paav at home

Homemade Buns / Paav – Haala’s Dastarkhaan

Cabbage Carrot Curry

The value of eating vegetables is something most of us realize after getting older, specially after having kids. This is the time you understand why your mom took all those strict routes of making you eat Bhindi, turai and patta gobhi. In my case, I always threw a fit when my mom made cabbage or patta gobhi but, since I wasn’t a big fan of Okra/ lady finger/Bhindi either, I had to pick my battle and would normally give in with cabbage.

It was my teen age when I actually started enjoying cabbage and I remember that my mom started adding grated carrot and peas to the cabbage which changed the taste from the tradtional cabbage curry and added a lot more flavor to the dish.

This cabbage curry is my mom’s recipe. There is no onion or garlic added to it. My boys love it and its one of the few ways to serve the greens in a delicious way.

Bisibelebath

Bisibelebath is a traditional south Indian breakfast. Growing up in Northern India, I realize that I never knew this dish existed. To me Masala Dosa, Rava Dosa, Idli and Sambhar were South Indian food and my knowledge never went beyond that. After I got married, I discovered the food heaven that South India offered. I was not just amazed but, also surprised that the food had the never ending variety.

Bisibelebath is one of Mr. Parveez’s favorite dishes. I would always see him order and relish the dish at our favorite restaurant in Bengaluru. Unfortunately, we do not find the dish as commonly in restaurants in United States, and some restaurants that do serve, do not make it correctly. Therefore, I started cooking my own. The best compliment is when I don’t see Mr. Parveez enjoying the restaurant cooked Bisibelebath as much as he enjoys mine…LOLzzz. As much as he hates it when I tell him that [you know wives have the “wife sense”..LOLzzz] .

Mr. Parveez believes that no matter what I make at home, when he eats the same dish outside, he expects me to completely ignore the fact that its something I can cook and stay away from asking any questions related to the dish. So, now all I do is take a bite and be thankful, that I can make better.

This dish is basically Rice and Toovar daal cooked together and then mixed with boiled veggies and the Bissibhelebhaath powder, along with a little jaggery and Tamarind. Fimally tempered with South Indian tempering of cumin seeds, Mustard seeds, asafoetida, curry leaves and a few cashews. Serve hot/ warm with something crunchy.