Paav Bhaaji

I still remember when the trend of Pav Bhaji first came to my town. I was in elementary school, and I absolutely loved the flavors—and so did everyone in my family. It was funny how suddenly Pav Bhaji became everyone’s favorite dish overnight.

I never got the chance to try it at a roadside stall, though I always wanted to. Back then, in the small town I grew up in, it wasn’t considered proper for women to stand and eat at street-side eateries. Writing this now makes it sound like it was ages ago, but really, it’s just been a few decades. What amazes me most is how much my town has changed—it’s exciting, and a little scary too.

Small cities have their own kind of magic. People are friendlier, they have more time, and somehow, everyone knows everyone. Back then, I could walk a mile and meet fifty familiar faces. Today, I might still meet the same number—but that warmth, that sense of closeness, feels a little lost.

Anyway, coming back to Pav Bhaji—my father would always bring it home as a takeaway, and we would all love it to the core. Eventually, my mother started buying Pav Bhaji masala and making it at home, and that’s when homemade Pav Bhaji became a family favorite. The Pav Bhaji masala I use even today is my mother’s recipe—simple, flavorful, and full of memories.

I’ve tried my hands at Pav Bhaji multiple times and have loved every bite of it each time. While my mother always added a mix of vegetables like cauliflower and carrots to her Pav Bhaji, I prefer keeping it simple with just potatoes and bell peppers. It makes the flavors more reminiscent of the original, street-style Pav Bhaji that I first fell in love with.

The Paav are also homemade. They are pretty easy as well. If you follow the recipe properly, you will be able to make these pillow soft amazing buns at home. You can serve the buns with anything, but as Paav with Bhaaji, they just seem to taste super amazing. To make them taste more delicious, split the buns, spread some butter and sprinkle some Paav Bhaaji masala on them and toast them on the Tava/ Pan.

Click and make your own Paav at home

Homemade Buns / Paav – Haala’s Dastarkhaan

Cabbage Carrot Curry

The value of eating vegetables is something most of us realize after getting older, specially after having kids. This is the time you understand why your mom took all those strict routes of making you eat Bhindi, turai and patta gobhi. In my case, I always threw a fit when my mom made cabbage or patta gobhi but, since I wasn’t a big fan of Okra/ lady finger/Bhindi either, I had to pick my battle and would normally give in with cabbage.

It was my teen age when I actually started enjoying cabbage and I remember that my mom started adding grated carrot and peas to the cabbage which changed the taste from the tradtional cabbage curry and added a lot more flavor to the dish.

This cabbage curry is my mom’s recipe. There is no onion or garlic added to it. My boys love it and its one of the few ways to serve the greens in a delicious way.

Bisibelebath

Bisibelebath is a traditional south Indian breakfast. Growing up in Northern India, I realize that I never knew this dish existed. To me Masala Dosa, Rava Dosa, Idli and Sambhar were South Indian food and my knowledge never went beyond that. After I got married, I discovered the food heaven that South India offered. I was not just amazed but, also surprised that the food had the never ending variety.

Bisibelebath is one of Mr. Parveez’s favorite dishes. I would always see him order and relish the dish at our favorite restaurant in Bengaluru. Unfortunately, we do not find the dish as commonly in restaurants in United States, and some restaurants that do serve, do not make it correctly. Therefore, I started cooking my own. The best compliment is when I don’t see Mr. Parveez enjoying the restaurant cooked Bisibelebath as much as he enjoys mine…LOLzzz. As much as he hates it when I tell him that [you know wives have the “wife sense”..LOLzzz] .

Mr. Parveez believes that no matter what I make at home, when he eats the same dish outside, he expects me to completely ignore the fact that its something I can cook and stay away from asking any questions related to the dish. So, now all I do is take a bite and be thankful, that I can make better.

This dish is basically Rice and Toovar daal cooked together and then mixed with boiled veggies and the Bissibhelebhaath powder, along with a little jaggery and Tamarind. Fimally tempered with South Indian tempering of cumin seeds, Mustard seeds, asafoetida, curry leaves and a few cashews. Serve hot/ warm with something crunchy.